I have recently come to the realization that my anger is destroying my marriage. After one too many blow-ups recently, my wife got serious. It was a wake-up call to me and I'm trying to resolve my anger issues.

I was feeling pretty confident about not having any significant blow-ups because I want my wife to feel safe and I want my marriage to last. I realize that 15 years of letting my anger get the best of me has taken it's toll on her. Now I'm hoping for things to get "normal".

I have been married almost 5 years. My wife has been accusing me of cheating on her multiple times a week. My wife and I work together in a family business. She's get angry every time she sees me talking to my secretary. My wife approved of and actually was the one that recommended the woman we hired. My secretary is happily married and there has never been anything inappropriate. She has worked for me for a year, and we've never been out to lunch, worked late together, rode in the same car

Here's the situation: I live in a house with a bunch a frustrating guys and gals who are filthy and irresponsible. As a whole, they are dirty and happy to live that way. I should have never moved into a house with these people, who I didn't know all that well. They are sooo filthy, yet they see themselves as "progressive" for being dirty.

Pardon me, but I think you guys are the reason why nobody wants to listen to activists or environmentalists, because many

This is not a Biblical question, but I will share some thoughts with you.

Cultures dictate how men and women relate to one another. Social interactions in our societies have changed in recent years and the distinction between men and women has become confused, yes, even among single Christians. For example:

· Do you open a door for every woman, or wait to get a hint?

· Do you offer to pay for the meal

The prosperity message is one of the most deceitful lies of the enemy in America today, yet day after day tens of thousands of people fall for this deceitful lie and support the "ministries" that preach it.

Jesus said in Luke 16:13, "No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one, and love the other, or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon."

The word mammon translates to mean wealth or money.

I am a neat freak. My husband is not. You would think that we would have had at least a one in four chance of producing one child who took after me. Unfortunately, this is not the case. All four of my kids are, well, untidy, a kinder gentler way of saying "slobs." They don't care, but I do!

I am alone in fighting this battle because my husband doesn't even notice there is a problem. He is "untidy" also. Recently my younger daughter and I were away for ten days, leaving my older daughter and husband to fend for themselves

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Is there something wrong with being single and enjoying it? It seems that there is a lot of emphasis on being a "couple." That is especially on Valentine's Day. Are single people just bitter people who have given up on finding love with one person? I know some people who would probably be happier if they weren't in a relationship that they feel "stuck" in. Is it insecurity that makes people settle for these kinds of relationships?>

O.K. my roommate is a complete slob. But she is also my best friend. How can I tell her nicely that I'm sick of cleaning up after her? I don't know what to do.

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I got this idea from my aunt...she got tired of telling her partner to turn off lights and other small stuff just write a note telling her what to do. For example, "please flush me" and post it to the toilet. Hope this suggestion helps. Or if you want to be blunt(which works wonders) just tell her that

I was a messy kid. I remember being put in my room and told not to come out until it was clean. The whole thing was too overwhelming for me! For starters, I didn't know how to get rid of the clutter and to make things worse, I didn't know how to maintain a clean room. Even when my stepmother threw away three bags of my stuff against my will, I still couldn't get it together. I didn't do this to be spiteful, I was just clueless.

For the third time now, the hardware store clerk has brought you the wrong bulb, maybe because she still hasn't gotten off her cell phone. Bad service isn't a crime, but it sure can make you want to commit one, as can any number of daily irritants. (being cut off on the highway, just missing the train). Americans report losing their temper on average three to four times a week. so I suggest you cool down fast.