Dr. Alan D. Wolfelt

Dr. Alan D. Wolfelt

Adolescent Mourning: A Naturally Complicated Experience

Each year, thousands of teenagers experience the death of someone they love. As adults


do, these survivors grieve (the internal experiencing of thoughts and feelings following a death)


but often do not mourn (the external

The Truth About Grief

A new face has appeared in an old debate. The new face: Ruth Davis Konigsberg, author of the recently published book The Truth About Grief . The old debate: the art of caring for people in grief versus the supposed science of bereavement.


Konigsberg, a journalist who has

Helping Your Family When a Member is Seriously Ill

You have learned that someone in your family is seriously ill. You want to help the ill preson as well as your family. This article will guide you in ways to turn your cares and concerns into positive actions.

Why is the Funeral Ritual Important

"When words are inadequate, have a ritual."


Rituals are symbolic activities that help us, together with our families and friends, express our deepest thoughts and feelings about life's most important events. Baptism celebrates the birth of a child and that child's acceptance into the church family. Birthday parties honor the passing

Helping Children Cope with Grief

Adults grieve. So do children. As an adult or child, experiencing grief means to "feel," not just to "understand." Anyone old enough to love is old enough to grieve. Even before children are able to talk, they grieve when someone loved dies. And these feelings about the death become a

Helping Your Family Decide if Organ and Tissue Donation is Right for You

If you are in the position of deciding whether or not to donate the organs and tissues of someone you love, you may have many questions. This article answers some of the most common questions and will help you think through your decision.

Helping a man who is Grieving

A man you care about is grieving. Someone he loved has died and you would like to help him during this difficult time. This brochure will help you know what to do and say as you offer your love and friendship to your friend.


Men feel the need to be strong.

Helping Infants and Todlers When Someone They Love Dies

When Someone a Baby Loves Dies


When someone a baby loves dies, knowing what to say or do can be difficult. How do you tell a toddler that his favorite grandpa is dead? What do you do when a baby whose mother has died cries all the time and refuses to eat?

Helping a Friend in Grief

>How Can You Help?


A friend has experienced the death of someone loved. You want to help, but you are not sure how to go about it. This article will guide you in ways to turn your cares and concerns into positive actions. Listen With Your Heart. Helping begins with your ability to be an active

Helping yourself heal When a Baby dies

Your baby has died. You are now faced with the difficult, but important, need to mourn. Mourning is the open expression of your thoughts and feelings regarding the death. It is an essential part of healing.


You are beginning a journey that is often frightening, painful, overwhelming and

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