MY life is such a mess and I don't know what to do!

My heart has been torn in two and no matter what I try it won't go away! Please help me!

It takes time honey. It won't just go away. I'm so sorry you're hurting. I can't do much but offer a cyber hug. But I'm right there with you, my heart has been ripped to pieces too and there's nothing I can do but hurt until it stops.

Time, Time, Time.

Check this. I met what I thought was the "love of my life" so i thought in 10th grade. We started dating mid way through 11^{th grade. I had all my firsts with her. I would truly do anything for her. Two months before we graduated, we broke up. It was not my idea. We were supposed to go to prom in 3 weeks. She went with another guy. So at the end of my senior year, it was so heart breaking for me. I found that all I needed was time. It was time to meet new people and move on. I to thought my heart was never going to be the same. I promise time will heal everything. I invite you to trust me. I have experienced first hand. Success is just around the corner and something better probably. It was for me.}

Hi. I hope this helps

. This as I see it is exactly your problem. You are trying to make the rip in your heart go away. That seems to be the easy way. Just try to concentrate on hanging out with others. If you have no friends that you can hang with, go to public places like a mall or bowling alley or even church. Try not to let anything negative affect you. You have to fix your broken heart. Not get rid of it. I've been in your shoes before.

Time may heal all wounds, but I know that for the time being you don't care, you just want it to go away. You must be strong. Let the pain come and ignore it. If you can face the pain, it will cower away and you will heal faster. If there is any faith in your family and life go on the Internet and search out church hymns. They will bless your soul and take replace your pain with joy.

Strength is what you need. Even if you think you don't have it. I know you do. We all do, you just have force yourself to unbury it. Use the courage and face whatever is making you feel down. I know it may seem hard, but like I said before, face your fear or pain, and it will go away sooner.

You are a child of GOD!

Yes, he allows suffering and bad things to happen to good people, but why? GOD wants you to participate in his suffering that redeemed the world, as Jesus suffered, but you will not lose your life like he did or get flogged. Knowing this and pulling off the strength of God will make your situation better.

I don't know who you are, where you are, or what is wrong in your life. Right now, I want you to trust me…even if you don't believe in GOD, or who JESUS is in the flesh, , he is all you need to be secure. Did you know that it's not necessary for us to believe in something in order for it to be true? For example, I don't have to believe in mechanical engineering to get into my car and drive to the store. The car will work whether I believe it will or not.

Having said this, please follow these instructions. This is not the worst thing that can happen to you is your life. You will get better.

1) Get on your knees in private and say the following:

"JESUS, I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON IN MY LIFE. TAKE OVER FOR ME AND REVEAL YOURSELF TO ME THAT I MAY KNOW YOU LOVE ME. I AM SORRY FOR ALL MY SINS AND WILL MAKE AN HONEST ATTEMPT TO NOT OFFEND YOU. PLEASE HELP ME LORD AND HEAL MY HEART."

I will pray for you.